Healing Your Marriage Course

A Community for Husbands

You’ve been spinning your wheels in your marriage for far too long.

The loneliness, the disconnection, the resentment, the endless fights over the same things, it's crazy-making. You’ve prayed, you’ve worked on it, you’ve tried to step up or do things different… but nothing seems to change.

And now? You’re at a breaking point.

You don’t want to give up on your marriage, but you also can’t keep living like this.

You need a space where you can get real with other guys. A space where you don’t have to pretend it’s fine or keep pushing through numb and alone. A space where you can vent, get messy… and actually get honest feedback, support, and actionable wisdom to make real change.

That’s why I created REFINED.

What is REFINED?

Refined is a solid, supportive, and faith-filled membership community for husbands who feel stuck, disrespected, or confused in their marriages, but aren’t ready to give up.

Inside, you’ll find the guidance, tools, and encouragement to start healing your pain, rediscovering and recovering the man God made you to be. You'll reconnect to who you are at your core and how God sees you. This will help you stay grounded, shift your approach, and lead your wife towards peace and connection again.

Joining the waitlist is the only way that you are eligible to lock in 50% off price of $47/month when the group goes live!

What Do Others Have to Say?

"Adam has spoken into my marriage on several occasions & helped advise me during times of struggle, leading to positive outcomes. His consistency in showing up for others, challenging you towards growth, while also keeping faith at the forefront makes him a unique voice."

-- Bobby --

"Adam taught me to keep working on myself in the marriage so I can become the best husband to my wife and to honor her and create an emotionally safe place for growth."

--Karl--

"My wife told me she felt safer and more at ease talking to me after our session together. She told me she could see that I was showing up differently."

-Gary

Inside Refined, You'll Get...

2 Monthly Group Calls

Twice a month, you’ll have the chance to get coaching and support in our group calls. We'll talk through what you're facing in your marriage. Whether you need guidance on communication, boundaries, or reconnecting with your wife, you’ll receive direct support to help you navigate it with wisdom and grace. You will also learn from what others are getting help with too.

Private Slack Community

A private, supportive space where you can dig into it with other husbands who get it, ask questions, share wins & trials, and find encouragement without judgment. You’re not alone in this, and you don’t have to figure it out by yourself.

Weekly Accountability Checks

Designed to help you take small, intentional steps that create real shifts in your marriage—whether it’s in communication, trust, connection, or masculinity.

Monthly Deep-Dive Trainings

These extended workshops go beyond the basics, giving you practical, faith-centered strategies for the hardest parts of marriage—whether it’s dealing with criticism, rebuilding trust, or reigniting intimacy.

Access to the Healing Your Marriage Course as long as you are a member

This comprehensive course walks you step by step through the exact shifts that heal a painful marriage, rebuild emotional connection, and invite lasting transformation. As long as you are a Refined member, you get full access to the course.

Practical Tools & Encouragement

Smaller lessons, nuggets of wisdom and resources in our private Slack community that meet you right where you are, helping you shift your perspective, change your approach, and bring more peace into your marriage.

Prayer & Biblical Encouragement

Because you weren’t meant to carry this alone. We’ll seek God together for strength, wisdom, and the restoration of your marriage.

Discounted Private Coaching Calls

Need one-on-one support for your specific situation? As a Restored member, you’ll get exclusive discounts on private coaching calls to receive deeper guidance and personalized next steps.

Refined is For You If…

You feel ignored or dismissed in your marriage and don’t know how to change it.
You’re tired of walking on eggshells, having the same fights, and feeling unappreciated.
You feel resentful and checked out because of disrespect or other past hurts.
You feel like you’re losing yourself in the relationship, and you just want to feel confident, strong and enjoy spending time with her again.
You don’t want to give up, but you’re out of ideas and out of energy to keep trying.

You Don’t Have to Do This Alone Anymore.

Refined will help you get to the root cause of what's going on, learn how to feel powerful again, and receive the wisdom and support you need to step up and get your marriage back on track.

Your marriage doesn’t have to stay stuck.

You don’t have to stay stuck.

Join Refined today and take the first step toward becoming the kind of man who leads transformation in your marriage.

Only those on the waitlist are able to lock in half-price of

$47/month when the group goes live!

(After that, regular price will be $97/month.)

THE WAY FOR LOVE 2024